I’m all ready putting on my bulletproof RED shirt, because in the past I made a comment about photos with brides carrying beer bottles and got taken to task…

“It’s her day and if she’s having fun, that’s all that counts”

I GET THAT!

Let’s look at this in a slightly different tone…

The “it’s her day” tone has started to change; the groom is becoming more and more involved in planning the wedding –

Where 11 years ago when I launched the business I RARELY saw guys at meetings – TASTINGS – but not planning meetings….

Couples with that is the change in philosophy to realize that this is the first time, you, as a new couple are entertaining – it reflects your style as a new couple…and it’s probably the biggest party you’ll ever host…

I learned something very early on in my career which works well with brides on their wedding day – during those times when there is a bump in the road, family or bridal party drama….it’s one of my favorite phrases…

“How do you want to be remembered on your wedding day?”

If you’re relaxed and enjoying the day, your guests will be too – it’s really becoming about your guest experience…..

Infuse your wedding day with details your guests will appreciate, look at what they experience along the way from the time they arrive to the time the leave…

Focusing on the guest experience and incorporating details which reflect both you and your fiancé, as well as reflect your families will ensure that everyone( including you) have an AMAZING time at the first big party you host.

How do you want your GUESTS to remember your wedding day?

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